You know, somebody asked me today if I "was over" my last b/f....the only one I let live with me in 8 years...and who talked of ever after etc etc... and then cheated on me... so I threw him out.... Am I over him? Good question....

a) would i ever have him back?

Answer - No, not ever, not in a million years, not in this lifetime or any other lifetime, not if you paid me a million pounds.

b) Does it still hurt?

Yes

c) Do I still love him?

Not in a good way. When I love sombody, really realy love somebody, I give all that I have and am - every cell in my body and all my soul. I believe that when you love somebody that deeply, and they break your heart, that a piece of your heart breaks off and stays broken off forever. You can love again, maybe even more deeply than before, but that tiny piece of your heart will always be broken.

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